Saturday, May 17, 2014

Before and After

When Matt and I moved into our home, I immediately needed to personalize it.  Our family painted, I decorated, and my mom cleaned.  But it all came together, and it's a home we call our own.  Take a look at some before-and-after pictures.


The previous owners had freshly painted - but in a dark yellow hue that did not feel homey or cozy.  We covered it with a light gray shade.  What do you think?



We decided on cream furniture so it would go with any color walls we painted (which may have been a mistake considering the golden retriever...).  I wanted to bring in a few pops of color, so I used lamps, decor, wall hangings, and pillows.  Never underestimate the power of a throw pillow.  It can make any room livelier.  And who can resist a teal chevron print?

Everything we found was on clearance.  The furniture, the decor, everything.  For months, I scoured the shelves of Target and Home Goods.  I frequented the consignment shop in Downtown Waukesha.  I wanted personality - and was on a budget - but I was able to make our home perfectly ours.


Home Sweet Home


When my husband and I made an offer on our first home two years ago, I had major hesitations.  Sure, I have made plenty of impulse purchases in my time – a tabloid at the supermarket, a pair of sunglasses at a boutique – but to buy a house after stepping inside only 10 minutes beforehand was a different story.

It was a nice house in the neighborhood I loved.  But it was 83-years-old.  And the walls were the color of something found in a dirty diaper.  The hideous wood paneling brought me back to the 1970’s.  This house needed some major updates.

Luckily, my husband Matt had the vision I lacked.  He saw the original wood trim and the arched entryways I missed.  He appreciated the wooden staircase and the walk-in closets.  Maybe I was just afraid to sign my life away to such a huge price tag.  Or maybe I was nervous to become a real-life grown up.  But two months later, we moved in and immediately made the place our own. 

We were on a super-tight budget.  But I was able to find amazing furniture and decor by scouring the clearance racks of Target, Home Goods, and consignment shops.  I bought refurbished furniture and Matt sanded and repainted some hand-me-downs.  The result was a sanctuary of our own...

More to come about that later...

A Movie of Titanic Proportions





When Titanic was re-released in the theaters for the 100-year anniversary of the boat’s sinking, I bought tickets in advance for opening night.  There was no way I was missing it.  Besides the fact that my husband never saw it in the theater the first go-around in 1997 (and he was probably the only one who hadn’t), it has been my favorite movie of all time.  And mostly, I was looking forward to seeing it in the theater with the different eyes of a married adult as opposed to the dreamy teenager I was back then.


Boy, did I get made fun of for going to see it again.  Especially for buying the advanced tickets and waiting in line for a good seat.  Titanic is one of those things, like listening to light rock or watching soap operas, which nobody wants to admit to liking, but many secretly do.  What’s the shame, really?   
It’s the 2nd highest-grossing film of all time.  It was in the theaters for nearly a year.  It was the number one film for months.  And let’s not forget, it won the Academy Award for Best Picture.

Those facts alone should be enough to justify Titanic as a great film.  But here is why I really think it’s the best of all time.  And have I mentioned?  I’ve seen A LOT of Oscar-winning Best Pictures.  As a bucket-list goal of mine is to see all 86 winners, I have seen nearly 40 of them.  Titanic undoubtedly still tops the list (I mean, The English Patient, really?). 



 The era

I love the early 1900’s.  Practically all my favorite movies and shows take place in this era:  Downton Abbey, Legends of the Fall, Fried Green Tomatoes, Mr. Selfridge.  I love the wardrobe.  I love how simple the times seemed without television and mobile devices.  I loved how people were more family-oriented.  How people were more honorable and selfless.  I mean, in today’s world, can you picture as many guys giving up their chance at life to women and children on lifeboats?  Or women staying behind to die with their husbands?   I honestly can’t.


The shout-out to my home state

Who doesn’t love when their home state is mentioned?  Jack Dawson was from Chippewa Falls, WI.  And while the film may not have been historically accurate about the lake he fell in while ice fishing, it was nice for a change to be mentioned for something other than  beer, cheese and the Green Bay Packers.


A movie that teens, adults and elderly love

Many Americans saw Titanic in the theater more than once.  I saw it twice.  Some saw it dozens of times.  But most amazingly to me, it got my grandparents to shut off their TV and visit the local multiplex for the first time in over 10 years.  Now that’s something.  For one reason or another, Titanic had the ability to draw in viewers at all ages from all walks of life.  Whether it was to zone out and focus on Leonardo DiCaprio’s looks, to watch the budding romance between Rose and Jack, or to see a legendary tragedy unfold.  Titanic was for everyone – and that’s why everyone saw it.


It makes you feel

Not only did the audience feel for Rose when she lost Jack, but we also felt for everyone else.  We felt for the millionaires who stood in their tuxes awaiting their untimely demise.  For the third class passengers locked below decks, not even having a chance at safety.  For Thomas Andrews, who watched the boat he designed sink on its maiden voyage.  For Bruce Ismay, who cowardly hopped into a lifeboat and watched events unfold in horror.  For Rose’s mother, who probably never knew that her 17-year-old daughter actually did survive.  For Lizzy, who realized what an amazing story her grandmother had been hiding all her life.  And for the survivors,who, as Rose said, “waited for an absolution that would never come.”



The lovers DIDN’T end up together

Sure, many Best Picture winners don’t have the leads ending up together.  But so many movies DO.  They’re predictable and unoriginal.  But Titanic let the lovers get together halfway through the film, only to be torn apart near the final scene.  So, instead of ending with a happily-ever-after, we got to imagine what kind of life our heroine Rose lived as an independent woman.  Sure, in the final seconds we saw her walk the grand staircase back to Jack after she dies, but there was also 86 years of living a full life in between then and the sinking.



Rose is the ultimate heroine

For every 10 movies where a male lead is the hero, there is maybe one that has a strong female heroine.  Rose is definitely that.  She’s strong not only physically, but mentally and emotionally.  Rose isn’t the typical size 0 beauty.  She’s well –read.  She stands up for what she believes in and speaks her mind.  Most of all, Rose isn’t afraid to start over with the new life she really wanted.  Just try to find a better example for all the teenage girls that flocked to theaters to not only swoon over Leo DiCaprio, but also budding star Kate Winslet.


The movie has EVERYTHING

And I mean EVERYTHING.  It has tragedy (“I’ll never let go Jack, I’ll never let go”), comedy (“With the size of that rock, you would have gone straight to the bottom”), romance (“Where to Miss? To the stars”),  history (“Titanic will sink – it’s a mathematical certainty”), a villan (“I make my own luck”), a hero (“We’re going to make it, Rose”), a heroine (“I’m going to do this – with or without your help”) extravagance (“It was the ship of dreams”), and loss (“1,500 people went into the sea that night”).  What more could you possibly ask for from a movie?

Thursday, May 8, 2014

Welcome to my World

It's been 2 years since my last blog on Sarah Seymour Style.  So much has changed in my life since then - I bought a house, became a dog mom, and entered my 30's.

What a better way to have a fresh start than with a brand new blog?  The last one was all about fashion, but this one is about everything.  Everyday life, health, travel, home decor, personal style, relationships, my community - EVERYTHING.

I am excited to be back to share my world with you.  Here's to a happy, healthy, and stylish trip together!

Sarah